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When we were little, we often got punished and reprimanded
of breaking the rules or not following the things that we are told to do. And
as a young child, we used to feel being rejected, or unimportant after getting
the punishments. And some people are so eager to get over this stage of having
a parent who’s going to watch every single mishap they've made.
I think I had the best childhood because of the presence of
my siblings and parents, yet those moments that I was being punished for things
that I've done wrong weren't worth telling. Like for instance, being paddled by
a broom because of acting so badly when I was not permitted to go watch movies
on a weekend. Yeah, it is not worth telling. But here I am, as a parent and as
an adult missing those moments where someone I looked up would tell me how
awesome or how awful the choices I made.
Living life is always about making choices. Nobody can
figure out whether the choices we’re making are the right one’s for us except
us. And it is very difficult to tell especially if you’re a person who wanted
to make sure that the way ahead is laid right for you. These are uncertainties,
a force that holds you away to where you believe you’re heading.
It is very hard to make the right choices. I made lots of
wrong ones in my life, but here is
what I learned over the course of time –
have faith.
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